I find it a wee bit ironic that the latest issue of
America includes an article titled, "Religious Life in the Age of Facebook," .... and it's only available online to
subscribers!
I have the advantage of living in a religious house that subscribes to America, so I can let you know a bit about the article. You'll need to find a paper copy to read the whole thing.
The article begins with the perennial question:
Why aren’t young men and women entering religious life today?
The irony bit is because of reason #4:
4. Young adults live in a media world unfamiliar to most priests and religious. DVD’s, Facebook, Myspace, Halo 3, Wii, cell phones, Madden football—these are the constant companions of young adults, as familiar to them as Notre Dame football, “The Bells of St. Mary’s” and foreign missionaries were to Catholics of the 1950s and 1960s. When we tell a young person we do not know how to take a picture with a cell phone, we are communicating not only that we are “out of it,” but that we fall on the spectrum somewhere between imbecilic and incompetent.
Hence, if you want young folks to enter this discussion, you'd want to post the article for free online so everyone could read it. But hey, what do I know??? I'm only a young adult for another 24 days (when I enter the dreaded "36-50" demographic category).
Ok, semi-rant over! I'm happy to report that the author, a Jesuit named Richard Malloy, does make a number of points which I think make a lot of sense. His 2nd reason for example:
2. In the past one entered a novitiate with people who were culturally similar and found the process easy. ... Most people thinking of entering religious life today are much older than in previous eras; they are of various ages, and as a group they are more diverse. They are concerned about what will happen to their 401(k) account, cell phone contract, apartment lease, car, dog and more. To enter a novitiate, they are being asked to break off a set of adult relationships and responsibilities that might be five, 10 or 15 years old.
Check. That list is a pretty good start I think of the realities facing folks who are crazy enough to consider this wonderful way of life these days. The particular challenge is in working with formation personnel who are at various stages of awareness of the fact that it's different than leaving your parents home at 18 and entering the convent. I've had some struggles with this, and have documented some of them here - read
this post for an example.
It's also true that novitiate groups today are very diverse. For example, we have one woman in her 20's from Kenya who is a student. One American woman in her 30's who worked as an elections administrator (moi). One American woman in her 50's who is a very well respected nurse. We have a woman entering next year who is a medical professional (I think she's in her 40's) from Korea. So yes, it's very diverse. In general, I think this is a good thing though, and probably actually attractive to most folks thinking of entering. Yes it's challenging in terms of daily living, but I think that younger people are more excited about our global reality.
In my experience a big part of the challenge here is more in terms of formation programs learning how to celebrate the gift of diversity among us. This relates to the author's point about how we no longer have homogeneous novitiate programs. Again though, there are varying levels of awareness. As a younger person in religious life, I think it's hard to feel like you're always "pushing the envelope". At a certain point you want it to be easier. But if I want to be treated like an adult, than I think that probably means some amount of living with the tension and helping the community to grow and learn. (
This paragraph probably makes more sense to the younger religious and especially those in formation reading this.)His other reasons are very interesting and thought provoking. It would be worth getting a copy if you're thinking of religious life or are already in religious life.
I must say that I'm happy the author ended on this note:
Nonetheless, there is some hope.
I don't know if I agree with his reasons for finding hope, but there is hope to be found nonetheless. Just take a look at the
poll results to date for this little corner of the blogosphere! Not to mention the folks who flock to my friend
Julie's blog. And the two of us blogging nuns aren't even officially in the vocation business!
Ok, random thoughts over for the evening. I'd love to hear what you all think (especially if you happen to have a copy of America lying around)!